"He may love you. He probably does. He probably thinks about you all the time. But that isn’t what matters. What matters is what he’s doing about it, and what he’s doing about it is nothing. And if he’s doing nothing, you most certainly shouldn’t do anything. You need someone who goes out of their way to make it obvious that they want you in their life."
this is really important (via dirtyberd
Our most painful weakness, those of us that care too plainly or love too easily, is that we continually put faith in the one we adore… Believe they feel the same as we do
Sometimes indifference is just that - indifference.
And as hard as it to accept… Their silence isn’t anything but the obvious fact that they don’t care about you. An unreturned text isn’t being coy… It’s a passive aggressive “you mean so little to me, you don’t even warrant a response”.
They don’t miss or pine for you…
They don’t look for you in crowds or crave your voice…
They don’t lose sleep wondering if you’re ok or wanting to share benign daily tidbits…
Those of us that love too easily, give of ourselves too sincerely need to take a page or two from their survival kit…
This is me
behind those walls
I took down just for you
*Takes a deep breath and holds it*
(Source: a-quiet-old-soul, via beautiful-blue-eyed-girl)
"Stop setting yourself on fire for someone who stays to watch you burn.."